On the outside, you do seem fine. You go to work, you take care of the kids, do the laundry, remember all the important dates, make dinner. You are seen as strong and capable. You get up each day and function, doing what needs to be done. But on the inside you feel a little lost, not quite sure who you are anymore. You miss yourself, wondering when exactly did you become the adult who is supposed to know how to manage life, where did the young, passionate, spontaneous person